“You're so beautiful, my darling, so beautiful, and your dove eyes are veiled. By your hair as it flows and shimmers, like a flock of goats in the distance streaming down a hillside in the sunshine. Your smile is generous and full expressive and strong and clean. Your lips are jewel red, your mouth elegant and inviting, your veiled cheeks soft and radiant. The smooth, lithe lines of your neck command notice all heads turn in awe and admiration! Your breasts are like fawns, twins of a gazelle, grazing among the first spring flowers” (Song of Solomon 4:-5)*As we read the words of this man, we can sense his love, his attraction, the poetry used to express his erotic passion for his woman. King Solomon describes his woman with great detail: eyes, hair, smile, lips, mouth, cheeks, neck and breasts. Like most men, we are attracted by the physical beauty of women. It is true that other wonderful characteristics are also important and attractive to us.
There are many men that are totally dissatisfied with their wife or girlfriend. Some men find them boring and unattractive, among other things. They feel frustrated and angry in their relationship. Let’s take a look at five categories of women: what men like and dislike about them? What women can learn and apply to their lives? What men can encourage their wife or girlfriend to bring into or back into the relationship? Once again since I will be speaking about sexual intercourse, let me clarify that I believe intercourse should be within the context of marriage.
The Bad Girl
Bad Girls are hot! They are sexy, beautiful, and flashy. They flaunt their goods, like to have fun, party, drink, smoke cigars, get tattoos, go to the bars to watch the game and, they like sexual intercourse. Bad girls like the attention, the one night stands, and guys like them. But normally they are egocentric, spoiled and undependable. When men seek a life time partner, they prefer someone a bit less wild.
The Good Girl
Good Girls are just the type of woman your mother would love. She is polite and gets along with family and friends. She is someone that understands him, shares common interests, is bright, and may even enjoy watching sports. But they tend to be boring, predictable and not the most satisfying during sexual intercourse.
The Gorgeous Girl
Gorgeous Girls are the model type – full of grace, beauty and confidence. She lives daily as she was on the runway or on stage for a competition: lights, cameras and Miss Gorgeous Girl. Men like their beauty, glamour, confidence and, having sexual intercourse with a “model” is a fantasy fulfilled. But Gorgeous Girls are also a bit intimidating to some men, bratty, proud and manipulative.
The Servant Girl
Servant Girls like to serve. They are submissive and they: clean, cook, wash and serve their men. Servant Girls like men to be the strong leaders and they follow whatever their man says. Men like their willingness to serve them because they feel like the king of their home. But they are not a challenge and, tend to be unattractive, insecure and horrible during sexual intercourse.
The Married Girl
Married Girls may be seen from two angles. The stable housewife, caring, good mother, fairly good at sexual intercourse but lack emotional connection with their spouse. Married Girls like the security of their marriage but seek the emotional connection and/or sexual pleasure they lack at home. They can also make great lovers since one of the things they seek is good sex and men like good sex without commitment. However, any lover that would fall in love with them will get their heart broken and, they will never totally satisfy their husband or their lover.
I believe that we can learn from these five categories of women and apply good qualities. What is a man’s ideal woman? A woman that is sexy, likes to have fun, is well dressed, smells sweet, can be wild but also mild, secure, trustworthy, not manipulative, not a whiner, glamorous and very erotic. In addition, she can make sure the basic things of the home (food, clean, wash) are fulfilled. Some women with children tend to forget they also have a husband; it seems that their whole life revolves around motherhood. Parenting is important, but great marriage is just as important. A woman lacking in these qualities pleasing to men should be willing to learn and change. Any husband or boyfriend that feels that their wife or girlfriend is lacking in a particular quality that he desires should be willing to share how they feel.
*The Message
The Bad Girl
Bad Girls are hot! They are sexy, beautiful, and flashy. They flaunt their goods, like to have fun, party, drink, smoke cigars, get tattoos, go to the bars to watch the game and, they like sexual intercourse. Bad girls like the attention, the one night stands, and guys like them. But normally they are egocentric, spoiled and undependable. When men seek a life time partner, they prefer someone a bit less wild.
The Good Girl
Good Girls are just the type of woman your mother would love. She is polite and gets along with family and friends. She is someone that understands him, shares common interests, is bright, and may even enjoy watching sports. But they tend to be boring, predictable and not the most satisfying during sexual intercourse.
The Gorgeous Girl
Gorgeous Girls are the model type – full of grace, beauty and confidence. She lives daily as she was on the runway or on stage for a competition: lights, cameras and Miss Gorgeous Girl. Men like their beauty, glamour, confidence and, having sexual intercourse with a “model” is a fantasy fulfilled. But Gorgeous Girls are also a bit intimidating to some men, bratty, proud and manipulative.
The Servant Girl
Servant Girls like to serve. They are submissive and they: clean, cook, wash and serve their men. Servant Girls like men to be the strong leaders and they follow whatever their man says. Men like their willingness to serve them because they feel like the king of their home. But they are not a challenge and, tend to be unattractive, insecure and horrible during sexual intercourse.
The Married Girl
Married Girls may be seen from two angles. The stable housewife, caring, good mother, fairly good at sexual intercourse but lack emotional connection with their spouse. Married Girls like the security of their marriage but seek the emotional connection and/or sexual pleasure they lack at home. They can also make great lovers since one of the things they seek is good sex and men like good sex without commitment. However, any lover that would fall in love with them will get their heart broken and, they will never totally satisfy their husband or their lover.
I believe that we can learn from these five categories of women and apply good qualities. What is a man’s ideal woman? A woman that is sexy, likes to have fun, is well dressed, smells sweet, can be wild but also mild, secure, trustworthy, not manipulative, not a whiner, glamorous and very erotic. In addition, she can make sure the basic things of the home (food, clean, wash) are fulfilled. Some women with children tend to forget they also have a husband; it seems that their whole life revolves around motherhood. Parenting is important, but great marriage is just as important. A woman lacking in these qualities pleasing to men should be willing to learn and change. Any husband or boyfriend that feels that their wife or girlfriend is lacking in a particular quality that he desires should be willing to share how they feel.
*The Message
¿La Mujer Ideal De Un Hombre?
“¡Qué hermosa eres, amor mío! ¡Qué hermosa eres! Tus ojos son dos palomas escondidas tras tu velo; tus cabellos son como cabritos que retozan por los montes de Galaad. Tus dientes, todos perfectos, son cual rebaño de ovejas recién salidas del baño y listas para la trasquila. Tus labios son rojos como hilos de escarlata, y encantadoras tus palabras. Tus mejillas son dos gajos de granada escondidos tras tu velo. Tu cuello es semejante a la bella torre de cantería que se construyó para David. De ella cuelgan mil escudos, escudos de valientes. Tus pechos son dos gacelas, dos gacelas mellizas que pastan entre las rosas” (Cantares 4:1-5)*
Al leer estas palabras escritas por éste hombre, podemos sentir su amor, su atracción, la poesía que utiliza para expresar su pasión erótica por su mujer. El Rey Salomón describe a su mujer detalladamente: ojos, cabello, dientes, labios, mejillas, cuello y sus pechos. La mayoría de los hombres somos atraídos por la belleza física de la mujer. Es verdad que otras maravillosas características son de importancia y de atracción para nosotros los hombres.
Muchos hombres están totalmente insatisfechos con su esposa o su novia. Algunos entre otras cosas, las encuentran aburridas y poco atractivas. Se sienten frustrados y enojados en su relación. Veamos a cinco categorías de mujeres: ¿Qué es lo que les agrada y les desagrada a los hombres de cada una de ellas? ¿Qué pueden aprender y aplicar las mujeres a su vida? ¿Qué pueden tomar los hombres y animar a su esposa o a su novia retomar en su relación? De nuevo estaré hablando de las relaciones sexuales, deseo clarificar que creo que dichas relaciones deben ser dentro del contexto matrimonial.
La Chica Mala
¡Las Chicas Malas son Cachondas! Son sexy, bellas y llamativas. Son ostentosas y demuestran sus dones, les gusta la diversión, la fiesta, beber, fumar puros, hacerse tatuajes, visitan las barras para ver los partidos, y disfrutan de las relaciones sexuales. A Las Chicas Malas le gusta la atención, la relaciones de una noche, y los chicos felices con ellas. Pero normalmente son egocéntricas, malcriadas y no se puede depender de ellas. Cuando los hombres buscan una compañera para toda una vida, prefieren a alguien que no sea tan descabellada.
La Chica Buena
Las Chicas Buenas son el tipo de mujer que le encantaría a mamá. Es muy cortés y se lleva bien con la familia y los amigos. Ella es alguien que le comprende, comparte intereses comunes, es brillante e inclusive, quizás disfruta ver un partido. Pero la tendencia es que son aburridas, predecibles y no las de mayor satisfacción sexual.
La Chica Preciosa
Las Chicas Preciosas son las tipos modelos – llenas de gracias, guapísimas y de seguridad. Ella vive diariamente como si estuviera en la pasarela o en el escenario de competencia: luces, cámaras y la Señorita Chica Preciosa. A los hombres les gusta la belleza, el glamour, la confianza y la fantasía de disfrutar de la relación sexual con una “modelo”. Pero Las Chicas Preciosas también pueden intimidar a algunos hombres, son consentidas, orgullosas y manipuladoras.
La Chica Sirviente
Las Chicas Sirvientas les gustan servir y ser sumisas: limpian, cocinan, lavan y sirven a su hombre. Las Chicas Sirvientas quieren que su hombre sea un líder fuerte y ella seguir sus órdenes. A los hombres les gusta que ellas le sirvan, ya que se sienten como el rey de su hogar. Pero no son un reto, y la tendencia es de no ser atractivas, ser inseguras y horribles en las relaciones sexuales.
Las Chicas Sirvientas les gustan servir y ser sumisas: limpian, cocinan, lavan y sirven a su hombre. Las Chicas Sirvientas quieren que su hombre sea un líder fuerte y ella seguir sus órdenes. A los hombres les gusta que ellas le sirvan, ya que se sienten como el rey de su hogar. Pero no son un reto, y la tendencia es de no ser atractivas, ser inseguras y horribles en las relaciones sexuales.
La Chica Casada
Las Chicas Casadas se pueden ver de dos ángulos. La esposa estable, cariñosa, la buena madre, bastante buena el la relación sexual pero carente de una conexión emocional con su esposo. Las Chicas Casadas les gustan la seguridad de su matrimonio pero buscan la conexión emocional y/o sexual que les falta en su hogar. También pueden ser buenas amantes ya que una de sus carencias es el buen sexo y a los hombres les gusta el sexo sin compromiso. Sin embargo, si un amante se llegaría a enamorar de ella, le quebraría su corazón y Las Chicas Casadas jamás llegarían a satisfacer totalmente a su esposo ni a su amante.
Las Chicas Casadas se pueden ver de dos ángulos. La esposa estable, cariñosa, la buena madre, bastante buena el la relación sexual pero carente de una conexión emocional con su esposo. Las Chicas Casadas les gustan la seguridad de su matrimonio pero buscan la conexión emocional y/o sexual que les falta en su hogar. También pueden ser buenas amantes ya que una de sus carencias es el buen sexo y a los hombres les gusta el sexo sin compromiso. Sin embargo, si un amante se llegaría a enamorar de ella, le quebraría su corazón y Las Chicas Casadas jamás llegarían a satisfacer totalmente a su esposo ni a su amante.
Creo que podemos aprender de estas cinco categorías de mujeres y aplicar las buenas cualidades. ¿Cuál es la mujer ideal de un hombre? Una mujer sexy, que le gusta divertirse, se viste bien, emite una fragancia dulce, puede ser descabezada pero con cabeza, segura, fidedigna, no es una manipuladora, ni una quejona, tiene glamour y es muy erótica. Adicionalmente, ella puede asegurarse que lo básico del hogar (cocinar, limpiar y lavar), se esté realizando. Algunas mujeres que tienen hijos tienen la tendencia de olvidarse que también tienen un esposo, tal parece que su vida gira alrededor de ser madre. El ser madre es importante, pero un buen matrimonio es igualmente importante. Una mujer carente de estas cualidades que les gustan a los hombres debe estar dispuesta a aprender y a cambiar. Cualquier esposo o novio que siente que su esposa o novia está carente de una cualidad en particular que es de su deseo debería compartirle exactamente como se siente.
*Dios Habla Hoy
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